We were going for divorce and were out of touch for 8 months, no communication, 15 days before the divoce my spouse came back and he wants me to give him another chance. It felt good, since he was the one who walked out and didn’t pay any attention to my hard work to make things work. He doesn’t beleive in counseling. But I have many heart broken issues with him, and I have lost a lot of trust on him. Even though he says he has changed and he understands what a marriage is about. I don’t think he does. Please help me how to bring some of the very hurtful things happen in our marriage by him and how it has broken me to him, in a very consturctive way. I am very afraid to bring up anything with him, due to past experince about very negatvie reaction. He is insisting I should talk to him about anything and everything. But I am totally skeptical…. Some of the major issue I have with him, he didn’t understadn what does mean by marriage, what does mean by responsibility towards each other, what does mean by respecting each other alone or in front of family members, about not telling the truth, some of the stuff i foudn out after separation, which happened before our meeting, but I know if I knew them I would have never married to him. This is why he hid them….

The pain, betrayal an hurt I got from him, I pushed them away and tried to move on with my life, but his coming back has brought memories of all these. I am having hard time beleiving the word and promises anymore..

Thanks